How to Choose the Right Homeschool Curriculum (Without the Overwhelm)
Tips for purchasing the right curriculum every time
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by curriculum choices, you’re not alone. I’ve been there—staring at endless options, convinced that I had to find the perfect one or risk failing my child.
When we first decided to homeschool, I wasn’t entirely sure it was the right move. We had just relocated to be closer to family, and no Waldorf schools were nearby. Private school deadlines had already passed, and I found myself navigating this huge decision without much confidence.
I knew how to teach adults—I had built my career around it—but teaching my own child? That felt like an entirely different world. And then there was the looming question: How would she make friends in a new state?
So, I did what a lot of new homeschool parents do. I panic-bought way too many curriculums. More than ten. (Yes, really.)
I was convinced I needed all the resources to give my daughter every possible learning opportunity. I didn’t realize yet that so much of the magic of homeschooling comes not from curriculum, but from watching your child, listening to their questions, and creating a rhythm that fosters curiosity and joy.
Looking back, here’s what I wish I had known before spending a small fortune on curriculum.
1. Watch Your Child Before You Buy Anything
Curriculum can be helpful, but your child is the real guide. Before purchasing anything, take a step back and observe how your child approaches problem-solving and play.
Do they love stories and narratives? Look for a curriculum that leans on storytelling.
Are they hands-on learners who need movement? Avoid text-heavy, workbook-based programs.
Do they resist structure or thrive with clear expectations?
Understanding how your child naturally learns will help you choose materials that actually fit.
2. Don’t Buy Without Trying the Free Samples
I can’t tell you how many times I was swayed by a beautiful website or a compelling sales pitch, only to realize the curriculum wasn’t a good fit once we tried it.
Most programs offer free sample lessons—download them and actually try them with your child. But keep this in mind: curriculum companies put their best, most engaging content in the free sample. If your child doesn’t enjoy the free sample, it’s a clear sign to move on.
3. Free, Unstructured Time is Incredibly Valuable
When I started homeschooling, I was still convinced that “real” learning had to come from a curriculum. I wish I had known how much learning happens from:
Asking questions and hunting for answers.
Doing simple science experiments at the kitchen table.
Playing with numbers while baking cookies.
Reading stories together and letting discussions unfold naturally.
A curriculum can be a tool, but it’s not the foundation of learning—curiosity is.
4. A Good Curriculum Will Show You Student Outcomes
If you’re on the fence about a program, look for actual student results—not just glowing testimonials.
What do students go on to do after using this curriculum?
Is there research or data on its effectiveness?
Does it align with how children actually learn, or is it just a mom’s personal approach?
There are fantastic curriculum creators out there, but not all programs are developed by educators or rooted in research.
5. Beauty is Nice, But Playfulness and Ease Matter More
I was initially drawn to gorgeous curriculums—watercolor illustrations, dreamy fonts, and aesthetic lesson layouts. But a beautiful curriculum doesn’t matter if it’s frustrating to use or feels dry and uninspired to your child.
The best curriculum:
✅ Is easy for you to implement.
✅ Feels engaging and fun for your child.
✅ Doesn’t require hours of prep.
If it looks amazing but feels like a chore to teach, it’s not the right fit.
6. You Can (And Should) Ask Questions Before Buying
Before making a purchase, reach out to the company with any concerns. Ask:
How much prep time is required for parents?
What kind of support or community is available?
How flexible is the curriculum for different learning styles?
A great curriculum company will be transparent and helpful.
The Big Takeaway: Focus on Alignment, Not Just Options
There are so many curriculum choices, but the list gets much shorter if you’re looking for secular, playful, research-backed programs.
It’s easy to be dazzled by something that sounds perfect, only to realize it doesn’t align with your homeschool vision. Before buying, ask yourself:
Does this fit my child’s learning style?
Does it align with our homeschool rhythm?
Will this add joy to our days—or stress?
At the end of the day, curriculum is just a tool. The real magic of homeschooling isn’t in what you buy—it’s in the freedom to learn, explore, and grow together.